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BETRAYAL

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–verb (used with object)

1. to deliver or expose to an enemy by treachery or disloyalty: Benedict Arnold betrayed his country.

2. to be unfaithful in guarding, maintaining, or fulfilling: to betray a trust.

3. to disappoint the hopes or expectations of; be disloyal to: to betray one’s friends.

4. to reveal or disclose in violation of confidence: to betray a secret.

5. to reveal unconsciously (something one would preferably conceal): Her nervousness betrays her insecurity.

6. to show or exhibit; reveal; disclose: an unfeeling remark that betrays his lack of concern.

7. to deceive, misguide, or corrupt: a young lawyer betrayed by political ambitions into irreparable folly.

8. to seduce and desert.

I had to resort to the dictionary for this one. We all have a pretty good idea of what the word betrayal means. But to see the physical definition serves me well as I unleash this verbal asswhipping! It’s funny that I have encountered people in my life that claim they have been betrayed. But according to the definition can one say they were?  What is your retribution? In receiving or giving?  Well I say stop playing victim. We have all in some way shape or form, fallen victim to circumstance, to a certain person, or just life. But your walk reveals your true resilience. I am so fed up and tired of people claiming to be betrayed when they have indeed been the betrayer. Desert when they are most needed, reveal when they are confided and disappoint when they are most expected. 

My ex now resorts to stealing pictures of my son off of my myspace page and places them on his to act like he has been present in his life. He sends his pictures around to his friends and family to fake interaction in his life and further encourage the character of victim.  I say for shame!!!! Shame on you that your shortcomings of fatherhood have led you to a lowness that can only reveal the truth to who you are. I feel sorry for the undeserving or deserving persons that have come into your midst and are surrounded by your falsehoods and insecurities. You have carried on a tradition of fatherlessness and expected your victim role to supercede the truth. I thank God that because of the unconsciousness of beings such as yourself he has placed witnesses in the alcoves to be a verbal sight to your indiscretions. I also thank God that I have been given the strength and entrusted by the Lord to be a parent and mother to my children.

This exposition is dedicated to all the single parents who sacrifice their life everyday to be a blessing to their children like God intended. And turn the true sense of being victimized into victory!

Love!