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BETRAYAL

 

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–verb (used with object)

1. to deliver or expose to an enemy by treachery or disloyalty: Benedict Arnold betrayed his country.

 

2. to be unfaithful in guarding, maintaining, or fulfilling: to betray a trust.

3. to disappoint the hopes or expectations of; be disloyal to: to betray one’s friends.

4. to reveal or disclose in violation of confidence: to betray a secret.

5. to reveal unconsciously (something one would preferably conceal): Her nervousness betrays her insecurity.

6. to show or exhibit; reveal; disclose: an unfeeling remark that betrays his lack of concern.

7. to deceive, misguide, or corrupt: a young lawyer betrayed by political ambitions into irreparable folly.

8. to seduce and desert.

 

 

 

I had to resort to the dictionary for this one. We all have a pretty good idea of what the word betrayal means. But to see the physical definition serves me well as I unleash this verbal asswhipping! It’s funny that I have encountered people in my life that claim they have been betrayed. But according to the definition can one say they were?  What is your retribution? In receiving or giving?  Well I say stop playing victim. We have all in some way shape or form, fallen victim to circumstance, to a certain person, or just life. But your walk reveals your true resilience. I am so fed up and tired of people claiming to be betrayed when they have indeed been the betrayer. Desert when they are most needed, reveal when they are confided and disappoint when they are most expected. 

My ex now resorts to stealing pictures of my son off of my myspace page and places them on his to act like he has been present in his life. He sends his pictures around to his friends and family to fake interaction in his life and further encourage the character of victim.  I say for shame!!!! Shame on you that your shortcomings of fatherhood have led you to a lowness that can only reveal the truth to who you are. I feel sorry for the undeserving or deserving persons that have come into your midst and are surrounded by your falsehoods and insecurities. You have carried on a tradition of fatherlessness and expected your victim role to supercede the truth. I thank God that because of the unconsciousness of beings such as yourself he has placed witnesses in the alcoves to be a verbal sight to your indiscretions. I also thank God that I have been given the strength and entrusted by the Lord to be a parent and mother to my children.

This exposition is dedicated to all the single parents who sacrifice their life everyday to be a blessing to their children like God intended. And turn the true sense of being victimized into victory!

 

Love!

 

By: Bishop T.D Jakes

 

A hater is someone that is jealous and envious and spends all their time trying to make you look small so they can look tall.

They are very negative people. Nothing is ever good enough! When you make your mark, you will always attract some haters…

 

 

That’s why you have to be careful with whom you share your blessings and your dreams, because some folk can’t

handle seeing you blessed…

 

 

 

It’s dangerous to be like somebody else…

 

 

If God wanted you to be like somebody else. He would have given you what He gave them. You don’t know what people have gone through to get what they have…

 

 

 

 

 The problem I have with haters is that they see my glory, but they don’t  know my story…

 

If the grass looks greener on the other side of the fence, you can rest assured that the water bill is higher there too.  We’ve all got some haters among us.

 

 

 Some people don’t like it that you can:

 

 

 1.     Have a relationship with God

 

 

 2.     Light up a room when you walk in

 

 

 3.     Start your own business

 

 

 4.     Tell a man/woman to get lost (if he/she

 ain’t about the right thing)

 

 

 5.     Raise children without both parents being around and not ask for a dime from anyone

 

 

 

 6.     Haters don’t want to see you happy

 

 

 7.     Haters don’t want to see you succeed

 

 

 8.     Haters don’t want you to get the victory

 

 

 Most of our haters are people that are supposed to be on our side. How do you handle the haters who you at least expect to have your guard up against?

  

 

 

 You can handle your haters by:

 

 

 1.     Knowing who you are and who your true friends

 are (VERY IMPORTANT!!)

 

 

 2.     Having a purpose to your life

 

 

 3.     By remembering what you have is by divine

 prerogative and not human manipulation.  Purpose does not mean having a job. You can have a job and still be

 unfulfilled. A purpose is having a clear sense of what God

 has called you to be. Your purpose is not defined by what

 others think about you. Fulfill your dreams!

 

 

 

 You only have one life to live…………….when its your time to leave this earth, you want to be able to say,*

 I’ve lived my life and fulfilled my dreams,

 ………I’m ready to go HOME!

 

 When God gives you FAVOR, you can tell your haters,

 ‘Don’t look at me…    Look at who is in charge

of me…’

 

Thank you T.D. Jakes for reminding us of our purpose and power. We will all encounter haters in our lifetime and we need to also understand the importance of their existence. You are blessed and successful!

Marlene